Later Homie!
Posted: Thursday, November 05, 2009
by Peggy Butler
PSB COMMUNICATIONS
Will the hip-hop culture be in existence 50 years from now?
That depends on whether the homies or homeboyz choose to remain in their current state, or make dramatic changes, not only to ensure their survival, but transform themselves into men who are capable of becoming an asset to their community and society in general.
The future: the year 2059-- Browsing through textbooks, the students in Ms. Larsen's 10th grade history class uncover a rare photo. The picture is that of a Black male with chains around his neck, wearing baggy pants and a scarf-like apparatus covering his head. The caption beneath the snapshot reads: This is the 20th century icon known in cultural circles as 'Homie' or 'Home boy'. Looking at the photo prompted the students to ask, "Whatever happened to the Home boy Ms. Larsen?"
said Larsen. "Where did they live?" asked a student. "They were everywhere," said the teacher. "Television, in newspapers, and in the streets dressed in their official wardrobe: baggy pants, gold chains, caps turned backward and armed with a dialogue consisting of hoes, chillin' and bit..es.
Shortly after Homeboyz became the phrase on everyone's lips, the mainstream media picked up the name, and rap music took on a whole new dimension; invariably becoming the music of, by, and about the Homeboyz and their cultural woes."
"What were they all about?" asked a Black student, staring intently at the photo? "I'm not sure," mumbled Larsen.
"They said they were the result of America's misconception regarding young Black males. The Homeboyz remained a fixture until 2040 when rap music became passe."
Fast forward to the present---In analyzing the demise of the Homeboy, I'm one of the millions of African-Americans, whose life has been touched by this chaotic mortal, borne out of despair and frustration. My homie is a distant cousin who goes by the name of T-Bo. His real name is Tad Bosford, but he feels that T-Bo is more in sync with his "playa" image than the subdued Tad monogram.
At 22, Tad, er T-Bo, is a college senior majoring in Computer Science, hardly your typical "Homie." That's why Tad insists he's not hard enough. However, when he goes out in public, women clutch their purses. Not realizing that he is a gentle giant, whose desire to fit in with his contemporaries is more fictitious than reality.
One day while visiting Tad at his apartment, I sat through countless rap videos. As the 35- inch screen filled up with images of bikini-clad women gyrating unabashedly, I was preparing to ask him what he found so fascinating about this tasteless diversion, when I was interrupted by a knock at the door. And judging from the look on his face, Tad knew the identity of his visitors, but was reluctant to let them in.
To create the appearance that no one was home, he turned down the volume on the TV. Surprisingly, the more he turned down the sound, the louder the knocking became. Unable to stand the pounding any longer, Tad opened the door.
There they stood, three of the goofiest homeboyz this side of Compton. Looking at them, I could understand why predictions of their demise were imminent. Not only were they loud; they were rude, disrespectful and down right obnoxious. As the door swung open, allowing the men to enter at will, I heard one of them say, "Yo, T-Bo, wazz up?" "Nothing much," my visibly annoyed cousin replied.
Knowing it was common courtesy to greet people with a customary hello, I threw my hands in the air and gestured what looked like a wave.
Tad introduced his homies as Wack, a mathematical genius; Weed, a drug dealer; and Headquarters, an aspiring rapper.
When another video with more "hoochies" came on; the boys went wild, with the exception of Tad. "Yo, T-Bo, check out the booty on that hoe," said Weed. "Woo wee, baby got back!"
"Yeah and front too," said Wack, reaching out to slap Weed's hand in a half-concocted high five.
Observing the horny spuddings rubbing their crotches, I quickly realized why society is so down on the Homeboyz.
Knowing this was my chance to find out what makes these young men tick; I ventured into what I knew was dangerous territory. But to satisfy my curiosity, I was prepared to take that chance.
"Hey, I want to ask you guys a question?" I said. "Yeah, what's that?" asked Weed. "Since you all groused the Dizzle Betizzle. I've heard nothing but bad things about you. Now tell me what are you trying to do? And are you the thuggizzles that everyone says you are?" In utilizing this form of slang, I was hoping that the language used by rapper Snoop Dogg would cause them to open up. Luckily it worked. And the trio proceeded to give me a rare glimpse into the minds of the infamous homeboyz.
"Those questions are easy to answer," said Wack, hoisting up his pants, which were midway between his hips and knees.
"The homeboyz are about chillin and dissin. We are young bloods, and people have been on our case ever since we got here. Now all we're doing is retaliatin." "Homeboyz is about expressing ourselves without fear or shame," echoed Headquarters. "This is reality," asserted Wack, referring to today's problems. "War is real. Drugs are real.
Unemployment is real. Crime is real. Being poor is real.
AIDS is real. Hoes are real. But people are pissed off because we represent issues they choose to ignore, or refuse to talk about."
Weed, who had been unusually quiet, chimed in. "For a young Black man with no skills and no education, jobs are hard to find. So they have two choices: steal or sell drugs." "I understand all that" I said nervously. " But don't you see how you are influencing future generations to sustain this same sense of insecurity and hopelessness?"
"People think that just because we have a biracial president in the White House, it causes society to look at us differently. But the truth is, as young Black men we don't amount to crap," chirped Tad, his voice teeming with anger. "Everybody looks down on us, even our own people ."
"But Tad," I said, trying to reason with him. "It sounds like you don't care about anything." "You damn straight!
We don't care," shouted Weed. Trying to instill in them that things weren't as bad as they seem, I said, "The one thing you have to remember, is, respect is not given freely, you must earn it. And secondly, you must respect yourself before others can respect you."
Thinking, I had gotten through to them, I turned and saw Headquarters staring at me. "Well I guess that's never going to happen, cause we're young Black men. Who the hell respects us? After all, we're the original gangstas of crime, right?" I wanted to say no, but the videotaped image of, Derrion Albert, a 16-year old Chicago youth brutally beaten to death by four teens last month, clouded my brain, putting a lump in my throat. Unlike the young men allegedly charged with his murder, Albert was a good kid and a honor student. How pathetic is that?
As I looked into the angry faces of Tad and his friends, my mind drew a blank, as I rationalized that in 50 years, the homeboys may in all likelihood become extinct. And in their places will be young men who will have learned the true meaning of life and all it symbolizes. Or will they?
While the homeboy generation may differ with the way society views their lifestyle; the fact remains that they are not rebellious misfits, nor are they the by-products of the self-indulgent 80s. They are by and large, young men who have not learned to respect themselves, their race, their women, or their children. And that is a fact Black America must learn to grasp and come to terms with. Thus, to the Homeboyz, I say, Later Homie. It's Been Way Too Nerve Wracking.
* Not the subjects real names
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)Very good article Peggy, I learned something from it. I hope others hear your message.... thanksComing from you David, that means so much. Yes, I hope people hear the message,especially Black America.
Wow! Very interesting piece. You certainly have a way with words. The plight of young black men in America is a complicated one and, as your piece shows, there are no easy answers. Unfortunately we have to live the next 40 years (where are those darn time machines!) and many changes need to occur in the black community and in America at large before homiez evolve (or die).Greetings in the name of literary authenticity:
As a African-American who has written umpteenth articles about the plight of the young Black male, I couldn't agree you more. This week it was revealed that the aforementioned group lag behind other students in the educational realm.
Following the report, the first word I heard was racism. Are you serious? Maybe if these young men would study, hit the books, and do their homework, they would realize the importance of a quality education. Nn, try as they might, this has nothing to do with racism, and everything to do with irresponsibility.
How sad that 17-year-old Tyrell can shoot hoops like Kobe Bryant; kick rhymes like a rap star; but he can't spell.
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